Bottom line: a dating profile—your first impression—is “sell copy,” and you’re the product being marketed.
The trick for you as “Boy” to get the biggest bang for your buck is to optimize your pitch so it will best appeal to Girl’s brain with content that directly tags her where Cupid lives.
Most men simply don’t know that a profile is the equivalent of a resume – if you don’t have a good one, you’re not getting called for an interview. Women have the same ignorance about the importance of a profile, except they don’t experience the same failure as men.
As a result, they have no way to learn their lesson.
We all know Tinder is the biggest dating app of the decade so far.
It has its problems (as my brother Steve has written about before), but for many women who put themselves in the category of “single-and-looking”, it has been a game-changer.
Yet, when it comes to online matters of the heart, finding “the one” often remains elusive.
So don’t be too surprised if you’re not enamored with 9 out of 10 emails you receive. 2) Your profile is likely not attracting the small percentage of “right men” out there – which is something that we can easily change.Everyone knows that men’s profiles, on the whole, are even worse than women.We can debate why, but, for the most part, I think it’s ignorance.I have been reading your information regarding how men have to be unique and different when contact women just because of the sheer numbers of contacts they have. I have looked at a few websites, and some women seem to not really try to attract as much attention as they could.Blurry pictures, pictures of pets, the dreaded bathroom mirror picture (why do they do that), no information in the profile, the list goes on. Dear Jim, A young attractive woman using a webcam photo could write, “I hate you, I hate you, I hate you” as her profile essay and still receive 100 emails a week. However, your question allows me the opportunity to address something that I don’t know I’ve ever addressed before when it comes to online dating – how women sabotage their own experience by not trying harder.