Then they pick some worldly asshole, while they reject the real Godly humble men.
Friendliness, a sense of humor and intelligence and, perhaps surprisingly, playfulness topped the list for both men and women.It’s a problem that affects many of our brothers in Christ—it might even be affecting you. My father has many memories of giving the cute girl from youth group a ride home on the handlebars of his bicycle, while my grandfather had something of a reputation for dancing with all the eligible young ladies at Christian fundraisers. Here’s the 100% HONEST truth from a man’s perspective. Let’s say a man is part of a church community containing several single women around his age.Finally, it’s a problem that’s disappointing many of the young Christian women in our lives. But somewhere among books like I Kissed Dating Goodbye, a lack of relationship role models and trying to navigate the minefield that is modern dating, something changed for our generation. Chances are pretty good that all of these women know each other and fellowship on a regular basis.Proyer said playfulness "allows people to frame or reframe everyday situations in a way such that they experience them as entertaining, or intellectually stimulating or personally interesting." It's refreshing to see playfulness top the rote list of "musts" we usually see in profiles, like intelligence and attractiveness. About the Author: Krystal Baugher Krystal Baugher lives in Denver, Colorado.